Once you’ve matched with someone, head to the Chats tab to start or continue a conversation. Here, you can get to know each other and see if you click. The Chats tab is your go-to spot for all your chats and matches.
Likes and Matches
At the top of the Chats tab, you’ll see everyone who’s liked or matched with you.
- Tap a match to start a conversation if you haven’t already
- Send a nice intro message, or use a GIF to break the ice!
Messages
In Messages, you can chat with your matches:
- Type your message and hit Send
- Add a GIF or, if available, send a gift (using credits) to make it special
- Ready for something more personal? Start a video chat or voice call right in the app—your phone number stays private
- It's not possible to delete or unsend a message you've sent, or delete a specific message you've received
If something goes wrong
If you get a message that offends you or breaks our guidelines:
- Tap ‘Report’ under the specific offending message
- Or, to report the member, tap the three dots (⋯) in the top right corner, then choose ‘Report’
- Our team will review and take action as needed
Tips for great conversations
- Keep it friendly—say hello and mention something from their profile
- Ask open questions and share a little about yourself
- Avoid generic or copy-paste messages
- Stay respectful and kind—that’s how the best connections start
Having trouble sending messages?
Try these quick fixes:
- Update the app to the latest version
- Check your internet connection
- Log out and back in
If you’re still having issues, feel free to reach out to our Support Team.